Comments on: Dealing with Adultery

By: Evelyn Gasher

Evelyn Gasher — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 17:45:26 +0000

Where do I sign up to help change the laws. My husband was mystified by an affair partner and robbed his family of our entire life savings while he vacationed at five star resorts. My children and I endured eviction from the only home they knew and my car being repossessed despite court orders ordering him to pay same. I am experienced in community volunteerism and would be willing to become involved in taking action to change legislation in this matter. I can’t believe what a married man can get away with now a days. Let’s put our heads together and work to make some real changes!

By: Who Cares?

Who Cares? — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 02:40:33 +0000

You should also point out that DNA has blown the lid off of the ultimate price men would pay, unknowingly raising another man’s child.

By: flabberghasted

flabberghasted — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 05:50:52 +0000

I am so discusted that I can hardly wrap my brain around it. The it being the complete lack of ANY concequences of his actions. Like adultry is no bad enought,he keeps lying and telling the kid I am a bad mother and I do not deserve them etc…Oh did I mention he is a truck driver and gone 5 nights a week and noww he is fighting for custody! I was in ICU a few weeks ago and almost died and when i cxame home he acted like super husband, very supportive and then I find his emails to multiple women untill jan then he fell in love with one so he playing mind games with me so stay in my bed all the while proffesing his unddyin love for this other woman, planning their lives together, he secretly got a lawyer and started the divorce when I was in the hospital!!

By: Paul

Paul — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 18:07:17 +0000

You’ve hit the nail right on the head. But the fact is that many people today are glad they’re not accountable for their actions. And these people vote. Since the 1960s its been a nonstop party for people who love being irresponsible, and there are millions of damaged and wrecked lives to show for it. The children are the ones for which I feel the most sorrow. Can this social momentum really be turned from its current course? My studies of history and human nature suggest to me that people only accept greater responsibility when they experience prolonged deprivation and suffering. After all, for most of history people relied on a strong family structure because they had nothing else to rely on. Conversely, people today rely on their families less because society gives them the luxury of doing so. If I’m right, this casts a real doubt on the idea of endlessly increasing wealth, peace and prosperity as a given in the future. I apologize for drifting so far afield from the original topic of adultery, but I can’t help looking for the underlying cause of what ails us in Western culture.